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Estate Planning - Comparison Guide

We Tested 5 Ways Families Try to Leave Account Access for Loved Ones. Only One Works When the Phone Is Locked.

Password notebooks. Google Docs. Password managers. Wills. Here is exactly where each one fails, and when it matters most.

Comparison guide 5-minute read Digital access planning
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Most people who think about this topic have already tried something: a notebook with passwords, a shared spreadsheet, a password manager, or a legal document.

What almost nobody has, until they are standing in front of a locked phone at the worst moment, is a plan that works when the phone cannot be opened.

Here is how every common approach performs against the one scenario that matters: the first 72 hours, when the phone is locked.

How each approach performs when a phone is locked

5 methods compared
Method Works when phone is locked Covers 2FA and verification chains Usable by a non-technical family member Completable in a weekend
Password Notebook 1/4 No No Partial Only after the phone is unlocked Yes
Google Doc / Spreadsheet 1/4 No No Partial Depends on access Yes
Password Manager 0/4 No No No Often requires the phone to open No Emergency access must be set up first
Will / Legal Documents 0/4 No No Partial Legal process required No
Lamorial Planner 4/4 Yes Yes Yes Yes

Most common approaches fail on the criteria that matter most in the first 72 hours.

Why each method fails at the exact moment it matters

Password notebook used for household account access
Password notebook

Password Notebook: fails at the second door.

The notebook documents the login. But every major bank, email provider, investment account, and subscription platform now sends a verification code as Step 2.

The correct password gets the family to the screen that asks for a code. The code goes to the locked phone. The notebook has no answer for what happens next.

The moment it fails: the family types the correct password and sees, "A code has been sent to your phone." The phone is locked. The notebook does not mention this step exists.
Shared spreadsheet for family passwords
Google Doc / spreadsheet

Google Doc / Spreadsheet: fails before it is opened.

A shared Google Doc still requires a Google account to access. Accessing the Google account requires a login. That login can send a verification code to the account holder's phone.

If the document was saved in a personal Drive and not shared correctly, the family may not be able to access it at all. If it was shared, the recovery chain can still lead back to the locked device.

The moment it fails: Google accepts the password, then sends a verification code to the locked phone before the family can open the document.
Password manager app behind two-factor authentication
Password manager

Password Manager: often the worst option of all.

Password managers put everything behind a master password. But reaching the vault can require the app, an authenticator, a trusted device, or an emergency access setup most households never configure.

For the person left behind, it can become another locked account inside the same locked-phone problem.

The moment it fails: the family downloads the password manager, enters the master password, and the app sends a two-factor code to the account holder's phone.
Legal documents beside a locked phone
Will / legal documents

Will / Legal Documents: designed for the courthouse, not the phone store.

A will establishes what happens to assets after death. A power of attorney can establish legal authority. Neither one provides operational access to phone PINs, email recovery, 2FA verification chains, or the practical details a family needs in the first 72 hours.

The legal right to act is not the same as the practical ability to log in.

The moment it fails: the bank confirms authority, then asks for a code sent to the account holder's locked phone.
The Lamorial planner
Starts where every other approach stops

Lamorial: starts with the locked-phone problem.

The Lamorial planner does not start with the accounts. It starts with the phone, the passcode, what to do when Face ID stops working, and how verification codes flow from the device to each account.

Then it maps every account in order: login, verification method, backup method, recovery email, authenticator app, and backup codes. Every door, in sequence, in the order a family member would actually need to open them.

A family member with a completed Lamorial planner can follow instructions instead of guessing under pressure.

The moment it works: the family opens the planner, finds the phone passcode, follows the backup verification path, and reaches the account without starting from scratch.
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What people found when they sat down and actually filled it out

BD
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Love the layout and simplicity. I thought I had all bases covered, but I love having it all in one little book.
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Thought he had every base covered
WM
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Working my way through it. Amazed at the time it is taking to find the information needed. This clearly shows how necessary and valuable a book like this is. Glad I bought it.
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Working through it now, USA
DS
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It has helped me think of many things that I would have never thought of on my own. It's very good. I now have much work to do.
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Common questions

Can't I just leave the master password for my password manager?

Usually no. Many password managers still depend on a trusted device, authenticator app, emergency access workflow, or two-factor code. If that chain points back to the locked phone, the master password alone is not enough.

I have a will. Doesn't that cover this?

A will is important, but it is not an operational access plan. It does not tell a family how to unlock the phone, receive verification codes, find backup codes, access email, or cancel subscriptions in the first 72 hours.

My family is technically capable. Won't they figure it out?

Technical ability helps, but grief changes the environment. Lamorial reduces the number of decisions and dead ends by putting the access path in order before anyone needs it.

Is it worth it?

If your family would need your phone, email, bank access, subscription details, or recovery codes during an emergency, the value is in removing guesswork at the exact moment they are least equipped to handle it.

You have already tried something. Now use the one that works when the phone is locked.

The Lamorial End of Life Planner maps every account from the phone to the backup code, in the order your family will actually need it. One weekend. 83 pages. No tech required.

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